Last night after the stressful day at work, a bunch of my coworkers decided to go hang out for a while. It was the last night of work for one of my male coworkers, so it was kind of a going-away celebration. We hung out for about an hour & a half. It was nice to just have friends to hang out with. There were a couple odd conversations... well not that odd, just odd to have with coworkers who you see every day at the office.
I really love the relationship I have with R. I called him while I was driving from the office to where we were meeting to hang out, and I said I was going out with some coworkers. He had no issue with me going out. We trust each other 100%. There's complete honesty between us, so we have no trust issues. My husband would have had issues with me going out last night. It's really nice to have someone that actually trusts me for once. Trust and open communication are the most important components of a relationship. R and I know that no matter what happens, we're going home to each other at night (figuratively speaking since we don't live together yet), so we have no reason to question each other. We don't try to change each other. We love each other for who we are.
My 27th birthday is Wednesday. R and I have a celebration planned. I'm not going to reveal what we have planned yet, but I will say it's something I've always wanted to do. It's also something my husband would have had issues with....
2 comments:
Sounds like things are going really well!! I am so happy for you!!
I hope you have a wonderful birthday and an incredible celebration!! I'm sure it's goinf to be the best birthday you've had in a few years. Have lots of fun and enjoy every moment!!
Glad that things are going well for you. R sounds like a really cool guy.
Have a great birthday!
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