BPD in OKC: more harassment

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Tuesday, October 7, 2008

more harassment

More harassment

My husband decided to be a moron again last night. He called 11 times, leaving 3 voicemails, and texted me 3 times. In the first voicemail he said something about it being the "big day" and that was why I was ignoring him. I had no idea what the hell he was talking about.

I filed another police report this morning. It was the first time I filed one through a female sargeant. They normally send men. She asked me questions beyond what she needed for the report just to learn about our situation. She asked if he drinks, and I said "oh yeah and I'm pretty certain he's doing something else too." I always get asked that or some version of that when I'm explaining the situation. Actually normally it's "Is he on something?" That's what most of them ask.

She asked if I knew any reason for him to chose to contact me last night. I said I had no idea.

Well this afternoon I found out what he meant by "big day." My lawyer called this afternoon saying that they served his parents with the divorce papers at some point since Thursday since we couldn't find him. I assume that's what he meant. I assume they got served yesterday. He seemed so certain that if we couldn't find him to serve him that the divorce would get stalled, but he didn't seem to realize that there's ways around serving him personally.

Thursday is our court date for the divorce. I wonder if he'll show up.

On a lighter note...

So this post isn't all negative, I thought I'd share a cute little story about the dogs. I have this tall bench that Oreo loves to sleep on. One day last week he hopped up there and then Pearlz decided to get up there with him. She tried to jump up there, but she didn't quite make it. She had her front claws dug into the cushion but she ended up dangling off the side of the bench.

Oreo stood up and looked down at her. Instead of being concerned that she was dangling off the bench, he pushed her off and she fell to the floor.

I got onto Oreo, but it was so hard to not laugh. It was very funny to watch. I wish I had my video camera out to record it. I never have the camera out when I need it.